First Blog Entry

Greetings readers,

The following blog posts are stories among my sad attempt to be successful in the world of dating. Over the past few years, I have tried my hand at online dating and had very unimpressive results. However, over those past few years, I have learned a ton about what women look for, and what I desire.

From my experience, there are four types of female online daters. The first being the physical connection type. This person is one that is looking for someone that they are physically attracted to, and has the potential to pass down strong physical traits to offspring. Being a man of larger circumference, these are the women that will pass up my profile and messages with a blink of the eye.

Next is the divorced/single mother type. Now I have went on a few dates with these types and they tend to be amazing women. However, unfortunately somewhere down the line they have been hurt. This pain that they suffer creates a hesitancy to trust new potential romantic interests in their lives. I totally understand and respect this about them.

The third type of woman in online dating I call the last resorters. The last reporters feel like they need a relationship with someone so badlyrics, that anyone that gives them attention, whether it's good or bad. But this also leaves them to feeling insecure and clingy when they do meet someone. These are the type of women that will, in my experience, push back at every nice thing you say about them, or complain about your quirks. And yes, I have dated a few of these women as well.

The final type of woman is fabled in online dating. This type of woman is what I have been looking for over the past few years. Almost like bigfoot, I swear I see her standing in woods, but turns out the image was just fake. This woman is someone that is perfectly ok with the person I am (which I am a dork according to many sources) and feels the freedom to be who she wants to be.someone that pushes me to be better, while at the same time, getting the same support from me. A great sense of humor, trustworthy, passionate. Someone so rare, that I cannot think of other adjectives to describe this person.

Please note that physical appearance has nothing to do with the qualifications I seek. I have met so many beautiful woman of all shapes and sizes that the outside doesn't matter to me, it's all about the connection we share.

This blog is to dedicated to Journaling my journey to finding that one person, whether it is from online dating or not. Looking for that 4th type of dater, the unicorn the universe has made for me.